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Most of our events take place in a private apartment in Kreuzberg. This is not a commercial venue. A few people actually live there. The size of apartment is just larger than average places.

The place is easy to find and can be reached by public transportation every 10 minutes.

Most of the apartment is an open and spacious open kitchen area. This is the space to get in contact easily, even if you do not know anyone at all. Adjacent to the kitchen area is a lofty living area with couches to talk more personal with people.

On top of the regular space, there is a separate room with clean mattresses.

As there are two bathrooms, waiting times are never too long, on average.

The times given for the individual party themes are the actual start times. So it's different from clubs, where you want or should arrive as late as possible.

Parties last five hours, or up to six if you arrive early. After four hours, the music is turned down a little and after five, the lights slowly and gently come on.

There is no entrance fee: the organisation and provision of the flats is free of charge. The gatherings are organised on a non-profit basis. There is no staff and therefore no labour costs. Nevertheless, the fridge is always well stocked.

The beverages brought need to fulfill certain standards:

As these are privately organized gatherings and parties, we are not selling any beverages. This is not a commercial bar. Rather, all participants must bring something to the party. This must be in closed bottles and from well-known brands.

Your confirmation to participate will include more details, including beverage examples.

We only provide the rooms and organize the cleaning.

Rule 1: Treat the apartment well and do not brake anything.

Rule 2: Picture taking or filming is not allowed. Cellphones, watches and fitness trackers need to be stowed and must not be used.

Rule 3: Please leave dispensers on their position.

What kind of action is to happen between two guys and the rules to apply for them needs to be agreed upon amongst those two guys before any action starts.

We do not send lists of participants before or after an event. Discretion is guaranteed. Even the un-outed, bi men, celebrities and politicians can have fun at our events in an uninhibited way. You can be completely sure that no information about participation will be passed on and no photo taking or filming takes place.

The grand themed parties on Saturdays have at least 32 lads participating and average age is 36 years. Numbers for smaller gatherings vary.

If you need to know what type of guys will be attending, feel free to join the Romeo Group MoreThanOne. Beeing a member of the group does not necessarily mean that a certain specific person has or will join a party.

If you are still hesitant, here is our suggestion: Drop by, look around, and if it wasn't what you are looking for: Simply leave the party, no questions asked. In that case you can of course take the brought beverages with you.

We provide boxes to put your clothes in and a distinct room to store them. For coats, we have cloth hangers.

If you prefer to wear your fetish accessories (e.g. leather armwrist or jockstrap) feel free to bring it with you. Yet, full fetish gear would not be appropriate.

There is a separate, lockable bathroom in which you can get yourself clean. Alone and with lots of warm water.

Additionally, there is second bathroom with a large regular shower, and water coming from above. We have plenty of towels to dry of, too.

The apartment itself gets cleaned before the events and mattresses are covered with thoroughly washed sheets.

Expect a continues mix of house music and progressive, played semi-loud in the bar area and a little louder in the play area. It is around 120 beats per minute, premixed by various DJs.

Some of our party themes feature a special kind of music in the beginning. If that applies you can see the information on the detail page for each theme.

Only smoking products permitted by law at the time of the respective party are allowed. Smoking or consuming illegal substances will not be tolerated. The smoking area is a terrace (cold in winter).

In case you "cannot play" without drugs, we are the wrong party for you.

Staying overnight is possible for guys that come from outside of Berlin and do not snore. Please inform us before coming to the party as there is limited availability.

We have fresh sheets available for the mattresses, so you do not need to sleep in other people's action results.